Deprivation of the girl’s virginity: the best age, is there always blood, does this hurt what to do after?

Deprivation of virginity is an important event for every woman. In itself, it requires not only readiness, but also special training. This process lays the main “foundation”, which serves as a kind of experience and the beginning of the girl’s sexual life.

How long does the deprivation of virginity last, it hurts, what feelings?

The moment of deprivation of virginity is important for every girl. This process also has a scientific name and is referred to as “defloration”. This name takes its roots deep into the Latin language and it can definitely be deciphered as:

• de -translated as “deprivation”, “removal” or “elimination”
• floris -translated as "flowering" or "flower" and "youth"

Literally the word translates as “deprivation of flowering”, “deprivation of a flower” or “deprivation of youth”.

The defloration process is the deprivation of a young girl (and sometimes not very young) of the virgin rod - a special fold on the mucous membrane located in the vagina. This film, as it were, blocks the entrance to the vagina.

The rupture of the film always occurs in different ways and the sensations during the gap are completely diverse, depending only on the individual characteristics of the woman's body:

• Sometimes after intercourse with imprisonment, a girl can feel pain in the inner labia if she touches them or with tension of the groin muscles
• Sometimes you can notice bloody discharge that remain on the body after the penetration of the penis into the vagina and means only that the spit was torn
• Sometimes the process occurs completely painlessly because a woman’s virgin does not have a woman at all - an individual feature that is quite rare

There are also cases when the virgin feather was not torn, but stretched. Then the defloration process could occur only for a third or fourth time of sexual intercourse. This depends on how much the fold is elastic, as well as on the experience of the man and the size of his penis.

Deprivation of virginity should always occur in calm and disposable conditions. Only such an atmosphere is able to relax the girl as much as possible and help her get the lowest negative sensations from the process. In 80% of cases, the deprivation of virginity is painful and the reason for this:

• The inability of a woman to relax before sexual intercourse, fear of bringing sex of pain and, as a result, unsuccessful penetration
• The rude behavior of a man, capable of leaving small and large breaks on the tissues of the vagina
• Large penis of a man, are able to injure a female vagina
• Rape - often occurring with innocent girls, since such sex is “not voluntary” in nature, he is able to apply injuries to the girl, sometimes very deplorable

With confidence, we can say that the way the woman will be deprived of virginity for the first time will lay her sexual education for the rest of her life. If the defloration process was traumatic, with a non -estate of a gentle partner, a woman may never relax and never get pleasure from sex.

Why does blood flow with virginity: how much blood, what time, how many days, what color?

The first sex is of great importance for a couple in love. Most often, two young people are confident and thoroughly approaching training and this process. This is necessary because deprivation of virginity is not only a complex physiological, but also a psychological process.

It is for this reason that most psychologists and sexologist argue that deprivation of virginity should occur no earlier than at eighteen years. The fact is that until the girl was 18, her body is not yet fully developed and is not ready for sexual relations.

If you adhere to this recommendation, then with confidence we can say that the process itself will harmoniously fit into the life of a woman. This will be a completely conscious and correct solution, which will also correspond to all hormonal processes in the body.

However, we are not talking about the fact that having reached the age of 18 it is worth immediately rushing to deprive yourself of virginity. Each organism is individual and 18 years old is an average age. Basically, the maturation of a woman for a given process occurs from the age of 17 to 19 years, despite the fact that some peoples and tribes still deny this opinion.

Listening to someone's opinion about the fact that the first sex is very painful, not worth it. Each process is purely individual:

• With confidence, we can say that for a woman the first sexual intercourse in her life will bring nothing pleasant. In any case, she will doubt, be afraid and strain the muscles in the groin, than to prevent the member of the vagina from the mild penetration of the member
• Most often, women feel a sharp, sharp, but quite tolerant pain, which occurs at the moment of the rupture of the film with the concomitant bloody of bright red color. But there are also cases when the feather has already been torn before the process itself and therefore, neither painful sensations nor blood discharge should be expected
• There is also the likelihood that if sex is soft, delicate and neat, then the spit will not break the first time, but only will turn off. So, complete deprivation of virginity will occur only for the second or third times and such defloration is not always accompanied by pain and blood

For each woman, the pain of this process depends only on how carefully she chose a partner for herself. If he had experience in deprivation of virginity, is quite tender to his partner and wants to deliver a minimum of unpleasant sensations to her - everything will pass softly and quickly. For this “event”, it is worth choosing a person in which you can be confident and to which a woman has tender feelings.

Why was there no blood with virginity?

How softly and smoothly the process of defloration will be held not only on a man, but also on the woman herself. Often inexperience and fear of the process can negatively set up and cause many complications:

• The girl sets herself up in advance that it will definitely be painful and therefore cannot relax. To regret, banal relaxation is the basis of favorable sexual intercourse, when a woman literally “lets” the man with pleasure
• The inexperience of a woman makes her embarrassed by a naked body, ashamed of her genitals and she carefully tries to avoid this process even even is ready for him. It is important to understand that deprivation of virginity is a voluntary and important matter, it will be the beginning of sexual activity and therefore “for this business” should be followed with a calm soul
• Unfortunately, at the first pain, a woman is able to push a partner, preventing him from “finishing the matter”, which leads to the fact that deprivation of virginity does not happen to the end and violates the sexual psyche of both partners

Often the deprivation of virginity is accompanied by a large amount of blood and the causes of this most often become painful and incorrect behavior to partners, leading to numerous gaps of tissues of the female genital organs and their bleeding.

It is also possible that during defloration you will not find blood at all and there may be reasons for this:

• Physiology of virgin rods. Simply put, this is due to the fact that this film is not too “rich” on the blood vessels and therefore can only distinguish the minimum amount of blood-a few drops or completely do without it
• The elasticity of the film is also one of the reasons. It depends only on the characteristics of the female body, but if it is elastic, then it is quite possible to stretch several sexual intercourse to the row and only then to break quite imperceptibly
• It is quite realistic to break the virgin spit if the girl very often engaged in self -satisfaction even without penetration. This is one of the reasons for the lack of blood during this first sexual intercourse
• Another reason is frequent and enhanced sports with the girl. For example, gymnastics. There are cases when the girl tore the pleasant only because she often sat on the twine
• The care of a gynecologist at the examination can also cause a rod to breaking the rod during a simple inspection, but this happens quite rarely

The average age of deprivation of virginity and the earliest deprivation of virginity

Modern girls, unfortunately, do not have any clear temporary and age-related restrictions that should and should lose their virginity. The sexual education of children is becoming more and more developed and early every year.

When the girl decides to lose her virginity, several factors affect:

• Standard of living And the country in which it lives, as well as the religion of the country. The higher the level of residence of a woman, the more carefully and more consciously it approaches the solution of this issue
• The level of educationit also affects the realization of the seriousness of this issue. If parents devote enough time to their child, seek to protect him from random and frivolous ties - most often they manage to “save” the daughter to a favorable age for sex
• The level of educationa young girl invariably affects her understanding of her age and lifestyle. The more educated, smarter and wiser a woman, the more carefully she approaches the solution of this issue. Frivolous girls, in turn, are simply not able to understand the seriousness of the issue

In some peoples and religions, there is still an opinion that a young girl should lose virginity and marry immediately after the start of menstruation-at 13-14 years old. Thus, by the age of 20 they already have several children. It is not one doctor to say that this is correct, but nevertheless, such cases are not uncommon.

• This opinion is held in Muslim countries and often by 16 years the girl simply loses her value
• But Europeans confidently believe that, first of all, a young girl needs care and education and therefore, earlier than 20 years, they are in no hurry to engage in sexual relations
• Nevertheless, the earliest age at which girls can be sexual, is considered 12-13 years
• At this time, the child still does not quite understand the seriousness of this way of life and is unlikely to get from this pleasure
• In rare cases, sex happens before this time, but this happens for a number of other reasons, the most common of which is rape

When choosing time for deprivation of virginity, do not rush to this issue and best of all - to listen to your body and body and observe the norm. The age of 18 years is considered the norm (plus or minus one year), it is at this age that it is worth starting a sex life in order to avoid disappointments and not harm yourself.

The best pose for deprivation of virginity, how to choose a pose?

It is known that some clear and exact recommendations about the fact that for the first sex you need to choose a specific pose-does not exist. The couple in love is free to decide how exactly she feels the most comfortable.

Nevertheless, most often couples choose a “missionary” pose when a woman lies on her back, and a man from above her. This is because the pose gives convenience to a woman, allowing her to relax and a man, allowing him to most naturally penetrate the woman.

The missionary posture will be the best start of sexual relations and a pose for a successful rupture of the rod. Further during sex, you can change your position even several times - this does not affect the defloration process. If you are worried about which pose will be less “bloody”, then none of the known poses affect the predisposition to the release of blood.

Follow several non -difficult recommendations during sex for the first time:

• Start the process of deprivation of virginity only when the girl is excited. At this moment, her genitals begin to secrete a special lubricant, which facilitates the penetration of the penis into the vagina. In order to bring the girl to marginal excitement, it is necessary to master the skills of oral sex and other caresses
• If the girl has a predisposition not to highlight a large amount of lubrication, it is worth using special lubricants. The fact is that if there is little grease, sex can be painful and traumatic
• Make the first sex the most comfortable: spend it in a soft bed and muffle the light to avoid constraints and discomfort of partners. Only then can it be achieved that everyone will receive the maximum pleasure from this process

Why does the stomach hurt after deprivation of virginity, there are discharge, it hurts to walk?

Deprivation of virginity can sometimes take a rather painful process not only at the time of defloration, but also for some time after it. The reasons for this are some factors:

• Rough sex, during which there were injuries and ruptures of the soft tissues of the female genital organs. This happens if a woman is not ready for sexual intercourse, the vagina is not moistened with grease and the penetration of the penis leaves tears and microcracks. Such injuries heal for a long time and may respond to pain within a week. Most often, a woman is afraid of such injuries and the next time: clamps, does not relax, does not emit lubric and therefore unpleasant sensations pursue her constantly
• Survival, notverage and bashfulness does not allow the girl to relax. She constantly compresses the groin muscles, overstrain them. This disrupts the functioning of muscles and after sex they are able to respond to pain after a day or two. As a rule, such a pain makes itself felt even when a girl simply moves
• If the sex was wearing and the girl constantly unlocked and tried to avoid a partner, and he took her by force. Such sex is not rarely injured by the external and internal genital organs, and also spoils the physical and psychological health of a woman for the rest of her life

In other cases, if after the first intercourse a woman observes discharge and not natural pains, this may indicate:

• The presence of violations of the internal genital organs. A small abdominal pain after the first sex for one or two days is considered normal, a little sharp and cutting. If unpleasant sensations last long enough and are strong in the nature of the fights, you need to contact a gynecologist for inspection
• Often the pain occurs in the vaginal area and this perfectly characterizes the first sexual intercourse, however, if you observe hematomas on the labia, you should consult a doctor
• Often, the pain is justified by the fact that the virgin playing is quite thick. Because of this, it contains a larger number of blood vessels and nerve endings. This phenomenon depends only on the individual characteristics of the body and the fact at which the woman loses virginity. The sooner - the thinner the sput
• The spit is able to heal after a rupture from one day to as much as 7 days and all this time it can bleed, because in it, as in any tissue, there are blood vessels that were torn during sex. Such blood discharge is sufficiently scarce, they are dark in color, or mixed with mucus

When, after deprivation of virginity, can you have sex?

• Depending on how soft sexual intercourse was, it is necessary to make a decision about its next session
• In order for the torn spit to heal, it stops responding with pain and bleeding is required for about seven days
• That is how much time in a minimal amount is necessary so that the female body “rests” from the process of defloration
• In another case, if sex was traumatic and caused a lot of damage to the genitals - then you should give him a “rest” for a whole month and regularly monitor your feelings, as well as visit a gynecologist
• In some cases, when sex did not “give” any unpleasant sensations: muscle pain, bleeding and cracks on tissues-there are no temporary restrictions for sexual relations. The main thing is a great health

What changes occur after deprivation of virginity?

Deprivation of virginity plays a very large role for the female body and is often able to seriously affect its condition. After the first act in the female body, some changes occur:

• First of all, the hormonal background changes, the production of hormones is more active
• The produced hormones affect all the biological processes of the body and sometimes positively affect the condition of the skin, making it smooth and eliminating the rash
• If sex becomes regular, the female body acquires harmony in both the biological and psychological sense
• The moral state of the woman becomes more calm and satisfied
• Regular sex life can give the girl a good mood
• In the body, metabolism improves
• The microflora of the vagina is changing
• The involvement of those muscles that have not been previously used by the body occurs

Why, after deprivation of virginity, there are no periods, breasts hurt?

Often, after the girl enters into adulthood and begins sexual relations, she feels some changes in her body. It is not rare - these are pain in the lower abdomen and even in the chest. It is possible that menstruation may stop. The reasons for this are only two circumstances:

• Hormonal restructuring -the first sex affects the further work of the hormonal system of a woman. Some hormones begin to be produced in full force, while others only appear in the first. At this moment, the body feels a little stress and tries to adapt to new living conditions. It gives characteristic signals with pain in the lower abdomen and mammary glands, as well as “puts it off” the period of menstruation for another period. Such delays can last one to two weeks and even a month. The situation is complicated if the girl has any inflammatory disease
• Pregnancy -a simple and perhaps the most common cause of the pain in the chest and delay of menstruation. Unfortunately, some young couples in love do not realize the seriousness of this process and not often ignore the methods of contraception. This leads to an unplanned conception. A young female healthy organism fertilizes the egg without any problems and changing the hormonal background gives these symptoms

If a delay was found after deprivation of virginity, what to do?

If you survived the defloration process and did not find a monthly menstruation on time, it is necessary to determine the reason for the delay:

• Make a pregnancy test -this will make it possible for you to get an answer to the main question: was fertilization or not. Most tests have high sensitivity and can give an answer to the question that worries you after a week or two after conception. If the test is not clear (due to a small period), you can take a blood test for hCG. The level of hormones will tell you about the presence or absence of pregnancy with an accuracy of 100%
• Seek a gynecologist for advice -if the test has given a positive result, then you need to register in the consultation and from now on spending time and time on your pregnancy. If the test has given a negative result, consultation of a gynecologist will help exclude the presence of serious inflammatory and infectious diseases in the female body, as well as study the hormonal state of a woman

What is the probability of getting pregnant in deprivation of virginity?

Whatever your first sex is in a row is always the likelihood of conception. Since the female body has gained the menstrual cycle and gave a sign by the first menstruation, a woman can always become pregnant. Especially the chances increase during the period of ovulation (the period of ripening and the release of the egg into the uterine cavity is about 13-14 days of the cycle) and during sex without any methods of contraception.

It is also known about how effective each of the methods of contraception is:

• hormonal contraceptives - 100%
• condom - 85%
• interrupted sexual intercourse - 60%

What to do after deprivation of virginity: tips

Anna:“The question of imprisonment of virginity must be approached with full responsibility and care. Make sure in advance in a state of health, prepare a place for sex. Since the man is more educated in sexual terms, he needs to make sure that the woman is relaxed and excited as much as possible "

Larisa:“Only a responsible attitude to this process can make it as safe and pleasant as possible. It is necessary to think about everything: place, time and method of deprivation of virginity. The first sex affects how a woman will perceive sex life in the future. "

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