Women's voice - what and how are we saying? How to develop a pleasant competent speech?

Features of the male and female voice, dimensionality and literacy of speech. Ways to save the voice.

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Appearance and dress are far from always indicators of a woman. Listen to what and how she will start talking.

The horses wrote about the female voice in verses that he "as if the river is murmuring." And the image of a woman was associated with a swan, birch, Pavoy.

By nature, the beautiful half of humanity is endowed with softness, fluidity, a sonorous pleasant voice. It is the woman who is able to revive her boring communication or kill the word of the interlocutor.

What is a pleasant female voice? How to make a voice attractive?

The pleasantness of the female vote is evaluated from the first moment how the word will be spoken. And it’s good if this is not a curse with a hoarse. And then those around them doubt whether a woman in front of them.

It is important not only how we sound, but what we say. You must admit that the captivity or gossip said by a pleasant soft female voice do not bring joy to those who hear it.

How to evaluate the pleasantness of a woman's voice? It is enough to listen to its sound:

is there any gratitude to others and compliments
he comes from his stomach or throat
the surrounding feel relaxation and appeasement next to a woman or, conversely, excessive stress
the speed of the verbal flow should be measured and pour like a stream
literacy of building phrases and the number of specific terms

The attractiveness of the female voice is adjustable and amenable to setting up. Like a violin or piano. Pay attention to coaches for female development and psychology. They have a very pleasant and attractive timbre of voice. And they answer questions about the methods of its correction in sufficient detail.

Conditionally divided them into two groups:

with the help of reason
with the help of training

In the first case, we:

consciously control what we pronounce
we evaluate the appropriateness of the replica before it is voiced
adjustable speed and stream of words, their quality

In the second option, they come to the rescue:

vocal lessons
respiratory practices
training of pronouncing words from the abdomen, exhaling
massage, yoga and any other, removing blocks in the body and reducing the number and strength of stress

Remember that the woman who is relaxed at the level of the body and her thoughts sounds pleasant.

Gender features of the speech of men and women

We differ from each other, not only by sexual basis, the work of the psyche and appearance, but in the sound and fullness of our speech
For example, men tend to get carried away in a conversation with the topic that is interesting to them and not pay attention to hints of it to change it. Unlike women who easily adapt and adapt to the interlocutor, carefully listen to him, quickly switch to another topic
The tendency to interrupt the interlocutor is a male feature contrary to the widespread opinion that women sin by this
The man’s speech is concrete, replete with terms, tied to the topic under discussion. The beautiful half of humanity is different. Their speech is saturated with expressive epithets, interjections, simple words, often jumps from the topic on the topic
Out -bloodwheat vocabulary is equally present in both male and female communication. But in mixed groups of interlocutors, she is not heard
Gender differences in speech developed even to the level of pronunciation of words, their length, replacing letters and identification of personality. For example, in the Chukchi language, a man pronounces the word with the letter "p", and a woman should change it to "c"
The Japanese are saying about themselves "side", and the Japanese "Atasi". The American Indians of the Yana tribe communicate the masculine style of their language officially, among representatives of the strong half and with mother -in -law. At the same time, the male version of the pronunciation of words is longer than female. In Portuguese, a specific word has different endings depending on who pronounces it

Why do men and women have different voices?

Nature took care of the difference in the voices of men and women. Since the time of life, a primitive system of a man was assigned the role of a defender from predatory animals. And they were afraid of low guttural sounds
Anatomically in men, vocal cords are longer than in women. Therefore, there is a kadyk on their neck, or Adam's apple, which creates an additional space for the ligaments
Remember the tuning of the guitar. The stronger the string is tightened, the longer it is less, and the sound is higher and thinner. A similar situation with the male and female sound of the voice
Therefore, a low rude male voice scared away predators. And women, on the contrary, attracted because of the association with protection and safety
Psychologically, the owner of a low voice is perceived larger and larger than the one who has a thin voice
Even by physique, one can assume what voice a person possesses. Most often, large sinewy men will speak with bass, and thin thin women - a high alt

What voice women say to a man

Women skillfully change their outfits, images and voice. True, unlike the first two, the latter reflects the natural essence, which is difficult to disguise with pretense and croiling. The transparent ladies assess the situation, the interlocutor and take into account their goals.

But this is the highest piloting of female skills. More often, we simply say how it goes, without understanding what we say and how. There is a connection of the timbre of the voice and perception of the speaker who speaks the interlocutor.

If a woman wants to attract a man, then:

her voice sounds deep from the abdomen, low with velvet overflows and pauses. Its owner is said "fatal woman"
soft, “wet”, with moderate accents to words

Men of a thinner mental organization are able to “hear” a clear, moderately hard, structured lady of the middle range.

Too high and squeaky female voices most often men irritate and scare away from prolonged communication. Like a squeal, hoarseness, creakiness, excessive quietness, talkativeness.

If a woman is aimed at the official communication format, then she speaks in essence, dryly, at the frequencies of medium and moderate low or high range.

How to learn to speak slowly and clearly?

It is difficult to understand a person who is chattering and/or swallows the endings, letters in words. The interlocutor needs to strain excessively and guess about the meaning of what has been said. And this only worsens understanding and communication as a whole.

Have you suspected problems with diction and speech speed and want to eliminate them? Use several practical tips:

write yourself for a recorder, speak freely without clamping your voice, as if communicating with a girlfriend. Listen to the record and make sure the problem is.
read the books aloud and change the intonations on the dialogs
sing beautiful romances, slow folk songs, paying attention to lingering places
listen to the scriptures in the record, they are read slowly with a clear pronunciation of words. So you relax, you will not want to settle peace and “rubbish” at all. On the contrary, subconsciously, you will feel a desire to imitate their pace.
perform regular gymnastics, if possible, take yoga or dancing, where stretching movements prevail, relaxation of individual parts of the body
perform exercises for articulation, for example, with balls in your mouth, pronounce tongue twisters, open your mouth wide, move your tongue on your lips and inside your mouth. In the public domain you will easily find a lot of other useful exercises
visit a stage in stage speech or speech therapist, work out or consult with them

Read aloud female novels, fairy tales or literature on psychology. You can record your vote at this time on the recorder and listen. Evaluate the sound as a third -party observer.

How to develop competent speech?

Agree, a person who knows how to build sentences is more pleasant. He speaks competently, that is, of course, intelligibly, clearly formulates his thoughts in words, emotionally stains sentences. Such a person is respected and listened to his opinion. He is in demand in any team.

The development of our speech literacy is affected by:

the number and quality of readable books
the habit of listening to yourself and professional announcers in the recording
solving crosswords to replenish the vocabulary
circle of friends. If you are surrounded by people with lame literacy, it is expected that you will also say

How does its speed affect the beauty of speech?

Chatterboxes, like slow ladies, strain the interlocutors.

The high speed of speech provokes the lack of understanding of both individual words and, as a whole, the meaning of what has been said. Everything is mixed in a pile without pauses. The owner of a quick speech pace herself also suffers:

her thoughts jump even faster than spoken words
in the eyes of the interlocutor, she sees misunderstanding and confusion
after communication, he feels dissatisfaction and irritability

Women who speak the luster, excessively slowing down their pace, resemble Finns or Estonians. The interlocutor ends with patience quickly enough, unpleasant feelings arise, which speaks to him as with a child or a nearby person. He is nervous, tries to complete the dialogue as quickly as possible.

Therefore, the speed of speech should also be monitored, filled with appropriate pauses, painted with emotional colors. We women are especially easy with the last point.

You can analyze your speech speed with the help of, for example:

recorder
feedback from a friend to whom you trust and without offense accept criticisms in your address

How to make a voice beautiful and attractive?

Many people, having heard for the first time a reproduced record of their voice, scare and feel confusion. “Do others hear me like that? Yes, this is not my voice at all! " - They think or they say
To find out for sure how you sound, ask friends and relatives
And if there are nuances with insufficient beauty and attractiveness, then they can be eliminated
But remember - the voice is inextricably linked with your personality, essence, character. And changing it, you will have to change yourself

There is no effect on a change in the voice to more attractive and beautiful:

facial exercises, for example, strong opening of the mouth and pronouncing vowels
the study of emotional intonations through the sounding of any phrase with different emotional colors, for example, evil, joyful, tired, playful, sexy. This also includes singing in the Tarabar language. Believe me, you cannot sing monotonously on it
the development of the voice by humming of vowels with a closed mouth. So you remove muscle clamps in the body and find new reserves for your sound
voice setting. Regular classes with a professional vocal teacher will give you the right breathing, feeling your body and the process of breaking sound, the ability to speak on relaxed ligaments, indefatigability in the case of working with a large audience
And a pleasant bonus is an improvement in health, a longer life. After all, opera singers were seen in the lists of centenarians

How to make a voice pleasant?

Only communication with her and feedback from the interlocutor will help to assess the degree of pleasantness of the female voice.

Your voice is pleasant when you:

refused or never had bad habits - smoking, alcohol, curses
They are able to destroy not only health, but also push other people from communication with you
fill the speech with words of gratitude.
Agree, it is more pleasant to help or turn to a person who knows how to thank
you sincerely compliment others and say pleasant words.
Remember, in the village of Carnahi, one of the principles of building friendly relations with others was based on the regular appropriate use of compliments in speech
we learned to speak with the stomach.
This is a natural feminine way of making sound. So the vocal cords are relaxed, and you have no feeling of fatigue after communication
say the words on exhalation. First practice at home so as not to shock the interlocutor
reduce the pace of speech.
If you know about this feature, you should work with it. Chatterboxes on the case and idle are too annoying anyone. But you do not need to turn into Estonian or a resident of Finland at all
reduce the number of words to a reasonable level.
If there is no urgent need to respond, keep silent with a smile on the lips.
sing beautiful melodic songs, mantras or prayers. The song opens the reservoirs of the soul invisible to the eye for a harmonious exchange of energy with space. If you are shy of scenes, love to sing at home for yourself
use simple verbal structures without an excessive number of terms.
Sprinking with smart words is the norm for men. A woman, the easier speaks, the easier and nicer to communicate with her
you regularly relax your body, for example, in yoga, Pilates, at the masseur sessions
A person accumulates in the body, uninfested emotions, and a woman, thanks to her impressionability and a tendency to empathize - and even more so. Find for yourself an outlet where you will easily part with such a "luggage"

Woman's voice and age

The sound of a female voice depends on the hormonal background and the work of the glands. Professional vocalists know that during menstruation should be minimized by the load on the vocal cords. They obey worse and give “roosters”.

The first age -related changes in the female voice come closer to the age of 40, they are associated with the restructuring of the work of hormones, the beginning of menopause. However, the owners of the middle range practically do not feel them, on the contrary, it seems to them that their voice has become brighter and sounds more beautiful.

Closer to the age of 60, senile notes appear:

the woman speaks lower -tones from her chest
atrophic processes are observed in the larynx
the facial muscles lose their elasticity and do not provide resonation
the muscles of the neck, shoulders and backs are weakening and are not able to maintain the strength and beauty of the voice

In the sound of speech, hoarseness, trembling, dryness are manifested. In part, they are the results of colds, aggravated at old age.

How to make a voice young?

If you are an employee of a television or radio company, a professional vocalist or your activity is related to communication, then you need to take care of your voice regularly.

You are contraindicated:

bad habits, hypothermias, stress, tones, frequent screaming

We need:

constant gymnastics and moderate physical activity
regular classes to strengthen the voice and develop diaphragm
tracking posture and relaxation of the muscles of the face, neck, shoulders, back
the sparing mode in the morning after waking up and will retain the ligaments during illness, and therefore the voice
compliance with the regime of work and rest, rules of healthy diet, life away from noise and vibrations of increased frequency
after 50 years once a year, it is necessary to undergo treatment with vitamin complexes with groups B, as well as zinc.
plastic surgery is an expensive method, but quite real

We examined the importance of owning and preserving the voice, ways of changing it and prolonging youth.

Be healthy. Rejoice in the sound of your unique voice and communication!