Recommendations to parents of hyperactive children. How to behave with a hyperactive child?

Find out which children can be called hyperactive. How to behave, communicate, play with them. Also read the advice of psychologists to parents of little fidget.

Now seeing a very active child on the street is not uncommon. Such children cannot stand in one place for a long time, react little to comments, prohibitions, interrupt the elders, they say loudly. Unfortunately, adults do not understand that this is a disease, and do not react irritably to an energy baby.

This syndrome is called - hyperactivity (attention deficit). Such children need a special relationship, parents should help their child get rid of this psychological disease.

Signs of a hyperactive child

• The nervous system of too active the baby works at the limit. He cannot independently regulate energy consumption, concentrate for a long time on something. Such symptoms are noticeable at an early age (at 2-3 years old)
• There is an opinion that your baby does not listen to you at all. He can be distracted by any noise, actions, quickly change the lesson
• Often such children have a delay in speech development, sleep disturbance
• They do not perceive any rules, norms. Do not like when they are forbidden to
• They forget where they put this or that thing. And sometimes they completely lose their clothes, shoes and other items
• They often cry, worry. They have anxiety, emotionality, restlessness, impulsiveness, sharp changes in mood

Important: do not hesitate to contact a psychologist if you have noticed such problems your baby. An experienced specialist will help to cope with her. He will tell you how to act to parents so that there are no conflict situations.

Hyperactive children: reasons

This pathology has not yet been studied until the end. Scientists are still studying, which is its root cause. However, already with accuracy we can say which factors negatively affect the health of the baby. FEG syndrome occurs if:

• parents in childhood also had such an disorder, i.e. Hyperactivity is transmitted by hereditary means
• the expectant mother abused with strong drinks, smoked
• in the womb, oxygen starvation is observed in the womb
• the pregnant woman has severe toxicosis, anemia, a threat of breakdown
• there is incompatibility of crumbs and mother according to the Rh factor
• the expectant mother has hard work, she experiences stress
• the woman in labor has protracted, heavy childbirth with pathologies
• there are head injury to the newborn
• the crumbs have a lack of vitamins, minerals as a result of malnutrition
• adverse environment, environmental pollution, electromagnetic radiation from the computer, TV

What to do with a hyperactive child at home

• Mom and dad first need to show patience. Do not try to limit the movements of your child, be prepared that the baby will run, climb furniture, jump and still have time to answer your questions
• Try to praise the baby as often as possible, even if he did not fully fulfill your task. Hyperactive children are very positive about this kind of praise
• Notice when the child begins to be interested in something for a long time, try not to distract him. Next time again carry it off with the same occupation
• Regularly, without being distracted, spend classes with your child at least two minutes three times a day. Build a schedule, their conduct and follow the time of lessons daily. Train the baby's attention
• Carefully follow your fidget, remove objects that can harm the baby
• Play with him in outdoor games, do not try to put him in a corner, put him on a chair. Just show that the baby upset you this or that act
• Note, when the activity decreases in fidgets, try to read something at this time, do something useful for him

Interaction with a hyperactive child

To have any order, you need to teach the baby to a clear regime of the day. He must know for sure when you can be awake when you need to eat and how much to go to bed. In one or two days, of course, this will not work, but if persistently, without screaming, with small tricks, teaching the baby established rules, then you and your child will be much easier in the future in moral terms.

Days should be done a little of the same type. For example, in the morning the baby woke up, washed, brushed his teeth, had breakfast, the active phase began. Then after a while - a small lesson, lunch. Then a walk on the street, afternoon snack, reading a book, games, in the evening dinner, communication with dad who came from work. At exactly nine in the evening, mom spreads the bed, includes a favorite nightnage, the baby falls into the pastel after water procedures. Mom reads her favorite book.

Important: the excessive softness of parents in raising fidgets is not welcome. Make sure your child does not overwork.

Education of a hyperactive child
Hyperactive child 1 year. What to do?

In one year, it is difficult to determine which baby is simply active or hyperactive. Most often, psychotherapists make such a diagnosis only in four to six years. And at such a small age, parents just need to surround your favorite child with attention, care. As mentioned earlier, to accustom to strict regime. Try that the baby does not have negative impressions. To do this, the house needs peace so that adults do not swear, fewer noisy companies, all kinds of festivities.

Create a cozy environment. Play with the baby in outdoor games. Try to be less in places where there are big accumulations of people and you can get too many new emotions (for example, in supermarkets). Allow the baby to do something yourself. For example, let him learn to eat with a spoon. Even if he succeeds, this is not correct - do not interfere. The main thing is that he focused on this and at that time he is calm, busy with something.

Hyperactivity in preschool children

Try not to give your restless child at six years old. After all, it will be very difficult for him to concentrate in the lessons. Let him at first resemble classes in the kindergarten. Just ask the teacher in advance not to tie him to one place, let him sit where he is comfortable, moves, plays, jumps.

Although very often it happens that the child begins to be rude to educators, does not find a common language with children. In such cases, it is better for parents to change a group or even a kindergarten. In order not to aggravate the situation. Unfortunately, not all educators can find a certain approach to such children.

Hyperactivity in school children

It is especially difficult for a hyperactive child to be attentive in the lessons. The elementary school for fidgets is a real test. After all, before that, the baby could do almost anything, and in the classroom it was necessary to sit in one place, carefully listen to the teachers. Such requirements for children with FEG syndrome are unbearable. As a result, schoolchildren have problems with learning. It is difficult for them to read, letter, mathematics.

To get rid of such problems, parents should actively support their child. Without fail, consult a psychologist, a children's doctor - do not ignore the problem. Let the student prescribe drug treatment and not only. The psychologist will tell you how to deal with the child correctly.

Hyperactive child: What to do to parents to the tips of a psychologist

To gradually cope with your child's hyperactivity, put in practice the following tips of psychologists-specialists:

• ADVICE: Do not give the student several tasks at once. Let it first cope with one simple work, then proceed to the next
• ADVICE: Do not set goals to your fidgets for the distant future, he will forget about them anyway. For example, if you clean the room for a month, then we will give you a new bike and my dad. Better say that if you save toys now, then I will let you play on a computer
• ADVICE: For each well completed task, let the child encourage (token). For example, if you collect twenty tokens, then we will give you a puppy
• ADVICE: If you are going to the clinic tomorrow, then think about what you can do there, waiting for the queue for the doctor
• ADVICE: Try to teach your child to feel time. To do this, when completing any task, use a sand clock, a timer. In the future, thanks to this, the baby will not postpone important things for later

Classes with hyperactive children

Such children are impulsive, cannot fight emotions, so you need to find their approach to them. When practicing with a student, adhere to the following rules:

• do not regret compliments for a well -done work for a child
• do not demand too much from him, but too little to load it is also not an option
• think over the situation in advance and make it so that the child can prove himself from the best side
• ignore the bad actions of children, do not emphasize them in general attention

Games for hyperactive children

Basically, games for such kids are created to adjust their attention.

The game is attention

Invite the child to remember a simple movement. Ask him to repeat it. Then the second simple movement, also let it repeat it. Then let him repeat the first and second alternately. And so bring to five movements. Then ask the fidget to recall the movement No. 4, 2, 3, 1, 5 yourself

The game is palms

Suitable for kids. Clap your palms in front of you. Then clap your hands with the baby, again in front of you. Then with the left hand with the baby, in front of you and the right. And so repeat several times until it turns out quickly.

The game is a traffic light

Draw three circles: red, yellow, green, cut them out. Then show the children alternately. Green means you can run, scream, jump, etc. Yellow - you can walk, talk in a whisper. Red - stand still, be silent.

Game - beast paws

Prepare several items in advance: glass bubble, makeup brush, edge, handle. Each subject come up with the name of the animal. Ask the baby to close his eyes. On the handle, boat the child with any of these objects and suggest guessing what kind of animal it was

Important: if the fidget is not ready now to play games for attention, perseverance, postpone these classes for later. Set up, forcing the child do not.

Communication with a hyperactive child

• As written above, it is important that the baby has a clear routine. When a first grader is going to school, parents should help him
• Without unnecessary information and consistently remind: put a notebook in mathematics, when he does it, then the next one is to put an arithmetic textbook, etc. But this is at first, then you can write a memo right near his workspace
• Do not say the word - "impossible." Apply it in combination with the word - "can." For example, do not draw on the wallpaper, draw on this sheet. Do not throw snowballs into the girl, throw it into a tree
• Try to switch the negative reactions of the baby, to positive

Hyperactive child - Komarovsky

Dr. Komarovsky claims that parents should receive information from doctors, how to act in a particular situation, learn correctly, treat such children. It is excellent if grandparents with grandparents will also help in raising a child and dads. After all, parents, too, periodically will not hurt to relax. As a rule, a shortage of lack of attention and hypermotal disappears in adolescence.

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