Muslimism is a very interesting religion, where there are a lot of rules and canons. Polisy is also welcome here. In our article we will tell you how to accept my husband’s second wife correctly.
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In Islam, polygamy is familiar and is not surprising. But not all girls are ready to put up with this and are ready even for divorce, just not to share their husband with anyone. In any case, as the husband said, it will be so and if, after all, the second wife appeared in the house, then you need to accept her correctly. Let's figure out how to do it.
How to accept her husband’s second wife in a Muslim family: Tips
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For some, the second wife of a Muslim is a test. And this is actually hard, because you will have to pacify the pride and accept the second woman. Islam is an ideal religion, and Muslims themselves are not and it is not known why the husband wanted a second wife. The reasons are different.
You do not have to communicate with a new wife in the house, but if you have to meet, then try to make friends better. Do not build intrigues against her. Better regret this woman. Maybe she has experienced a lot before this marriage.
If the appearance of the second wife in the house was a complete surprise, then take a short pause and say that you want to think over and accept this fact. By the way, it sometimes does not take so little time. Sometimes, even years.
But first you can use several simple tips:
- Take a wash and read the prayer
- Read your favorite places of the sacred book
- Stay alone with Allah, read, for example
- Take a shower, drink tea, get distracted from problems
- Take a walk with children or visit the mosque
In other words, do everything to relax and distract from the bad. Well, if you can’t cope with yourself at all, then change the center of the universe from the husband to the Almighty. You must realize that a man is not your property, and happiness depends on Allah!
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Try to gently remind your husband that dividing everything is equal between wives and fulfill your duties yourself. The husband should also remind them of them, but only it is not necessary to download the rights, because it will not be a plus.
Do not think you are humiliated. Yes, your husband is not alone now, but is it worth spending your life on scandals and disputes?
Engage in yourself, religion, study the new. In the end, get a useful profession or improve skills in the existing one. Think where you could help people for the sake of the Almighty.
Do not forget about maintaining comfort in the house. How exactly you will accept your husband’s wife can affect your children. If you are scandalous, then ruin the psyche. Well, if you behave with dignity, then you will look in their eyes a strong woman.
Make maximum efforts to make good Muslims out of the children. And for this, submit to Allah, because children need a wise mother.
What if the second wife in a Muslim family does not accept the first?
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It also happens that the second wife of a Muslim does not accept the first, although she agreed. And in the end, the situation comes to the fact that a man is given a choice - either I or her. How to behave correctly?
Of course, the first wife after the appearance of another woman begins to feel a little not full, but she demonstrates her husband humility and readiness for such a life. Although, she needs the biggest support. The second woman, in turn, can understand her, but not take such a situation.
The second spouse often behaves in this way because it seems to her that her husband does not pay enough attention. Of course, there is jealousy and desire to take the first and only place in the heart of the spouse.
In this case, you should not succumb to provocations, first of all, the very first spouse. According to Sharia, a man can submit a divorce for any reason, but women do not have such a right. If a man fulfills his duties to provide, marital duty and so on, then there is no reason to submit for divorce. Of course, if the house has constant scandals and reproaches that the second wife will present, then her man is unlikely to endure. Well, you will remain the only one at such a pace again.
Video: the outrage of the first wife, when the husband took the second
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