How to learn to kiss? Effective tips

Joseph Conrad claimed that kisses are what remained in memory of the paradise. Read the article and study the secrets of the paradise language. Moreover, kisses are not only pleasant, but also incredibly useful!

Interesting fact. On average, in his entire life, a person spends about 20`160 minutes on kisses.

Modern kiss many. He can symbolize peace, friendship, respect, passion, love. The whole history of touching the mouth to the mouth is based on intimacy, trust and intimacy.

Sexologists argue that the emerging persistent desire to kiss a person is the first and main sign of readiness to love him.

And what do psychologists think about this?

The meaning of kisses from the point of view of psychology

Kissing and quarrels - this is the secret of happiness
Frederick Begbeder "Una and Salinger"

• The human kiss is studied by a whole science - phylematology. However, it is worth noting that the kiss as a phenomenon is interesting to physiologists, psychologists, sociologists, anthropologists. All of them are looking for an answer to the question: “Why do people love kissing so much
• At the same time, a kiss is one of the ways of non -verbal communication that allows you to learn much more about a person than during a conversation or visual contact. After all, a person, contrary to generally accepted opinion, sees not with the eyes, but the brain
• It is the brain during the first kiss that conducts an express analysis of the partner for genetic compatibility. It has been experimentally proven that women in this matter are mistaken less often than men

Where does the kiss of a kiss come from. The origins of fear

Fear is not at all in danger, he is in ourselves
Sildal

There are people who do not need kisses at all. According to statistics, Scandinavians are the most indifferent to kissing tenderness among Europeans. Norstat’s sociological service of Norway claims that 2 out of 10 Norwegians are not experienced by kisses.
The fear of kisses belongs to one of the most common human phobias. 12-15% of the entire population of the globe suffers from a disease.

“Filemaphobia” - this is how the fear of kisses is called in medicine.

The causes of phylemaphobia are usually very different:

• squeamishness, as a result of increased smell
• fear of absolutely any microbes
• fear of infectious infectious diseases
• staphylococcal disease transferred in childhood. Staphylococcus bacteria sometimes affects the brain center responsible for pleasure. Such people do not experience any feelings with a kiss. The disease actually forms a “block on the lips”, which delivers a lot of unpleasant moments to its owner
• the fear of kisses is also characteristic of perfectionists who strive for a perfect result

How to overcome the fear of the first kiss? Video

Many believe that they hopelessly ruined the 1st kiss,
And after many years they remember him with a smile

Fear of the first kiss is experienced by everyone except children.

It is impossible to give universal advice how to overcome fear, including fear of the first kiss. Such advice simply does not exist: we are all different and everyone has their own fear.
However, there is something that unites all fears in the universe - uncertainty:

• What if she/he will not like
• What to do after a kiss
• I will definitely do everything wrong

The medical fact will help to raise the fighting spirit of all for the first time: people know how to kiss from birth! This is laid in us along with the rest of a thousand reflexes: the ability to breathe, blink, hiccup, etc.

The first kiss is the case when you need to leave the personal zone of comfort and survive the moment of “creation of magic”, even if this magic is understandable from the point of view of chemistry and neurobiology.

Fear of a kiss in girls. Peculiarities

Traditions suggest that the main advantage of the girl is romance and inexperience. Therefore, everything that the girl considers the disadvantage is actually easily turns into dignity. Especially if the partner is already quite experienced and has long left behind his first kiss.

IMPORTANT: Men always perceive everything literally! If a girl declares herself as a person with a certain experience, then the attitude towards her will be, as an experienced partner.

In this case, waiting for a man of tact, tenderness and romance will be difficult.

The scene from the film "Amelie" is perhaps the most romantic kiss, the initiator of which is the girl.

The video “Beautiful Kiss in the Cinema. Amelie kiss "

Features of fear of a kiss in guys

With the male part for the first time kissing, things are more complicated. On a man, as a rule, he presses his social role: to be a leader who leads. And what to do for those who do not know where to lead?

The main advice of psychologists and sexologists for men: you need to relax!

Kisses are a university in which you can be an eternal student. The main thing is not to miss the moment when your partner is ready to move on to the next level of relationship. The video “How to find out whether the girl loves” will help to understand the feelings of a partner.

Hipples of how to get out of the friendzones can be found in the appropriate video. The video from Axe Campus will tell the gentlemen the basic rules of behavior with a kiss.

Video: how to find out whether the girl loves

Video: How to get out of the friendzones. 5 ways

Video: Ax Campus —Con "Kiss"

What types and techniques of kisses exist?

Each kiss has its own secret, its own history and meaning.

Kisses can be

• seductive
• treacherous
• finging passion
• life -giving
• deadly
• dangerous
• cold
• light

Kisses do not happen just like that. Each of them has its own occasion.

Kisses are

• ceremonial or respectful. When, for example, a gentleman kisses a lady's hand in greeting
• love
• official. When politicians and officials are published
• tolent. So kiss small children and animals
• friendly - devoid of all sexual connotation
• air. Kiss-Flirt in the relationship of lovers or a kiss-entry between friends
• family or fraternal. Such kisses are common among relatives and serve as an unconscious confirmation of blood kinship
• hollywood (secular). At the same time, air kisses near the skin of another person (so as not to spoil makeup or makeup)
• kiss of text messages in the form of an emoticon with lips compressed in a kiss

Video: Kiss technique. How to learn to kiss. 5 Technician Kiss. Watch the video

How to learn how to kiss correctly in a short time? Instructions

Who thinks that two kisses are similar to one another, that two caresses are the same,
He never read the alphabet of love
Paolo Mantegazza

No one will ever make an algorithm of the right kiss. After all, a kiss is magic.
However, there are general rules for a kiss:

1. Care

• the man should be well shaved. Prickly overgrown bristles can spoil the impression of a kiss
• the girl should look natural, without the abundance of cosmetics and the pungent smell of perfume. Eating lipstick from women's lips is not always nice

2. The lips should be soft, relaxed and slightly wet. Dry cracked lips or wet mouth will leave behind not the most romantic memory

3. Breathing should be fresh. If you are a lover of spicy food, choose what is more important to you: a kiss or spaghetti with garlic sauce

4. Forget your gadgets from time to time at home. They are the most distracting factor

5. Remember, each person kisses as he likes. So this technique is the most natural and correct for it

6. Emotional and physical contact between partners are very important:

• you hold hands, hug
• you feel good at each other's emotional state

7. There is always a leading and led in a kiss. Change roles, study your partner manner

8. Do not read Kamasutra before the first kiss. Leave exotic for the future. Better read this:

Kisses

Slowly and ... easy, like a strain,
Touching only the ends of the nerves,
Not with fire of voids, but bottom
One quarter of the intensity, approximately ...

As a cure for small doses,
(As if in fear of poison to twist)
The lips with marshmallows are tender-pink
Touch ... believe me ... it will work ...

Only later, when they are filled
Vienna rumble ... and the body is sparks,
We will allow ourselves to come to our senses
And break with waves-spray!

9. In the first stages, the main thing is practice. After all, after the first kiss, the second, third, hundredth

Video: How you should not kiss

Video: How to kiss a girl correctly. Seduction of the girl kiss

Air kiss. The value of the air kiss

Light and delicate. The first kiss that the baby is learning to do. Air kiss is appropriate when communicating people of all ages. This is something between the official handshake and informal friendly kiss.

If a kiss is intended for a loved one, he can turn into a fascinating game-flirt:

Classic air kiss

• bring the fingertips of your hand to your lips
• kiss them
• turn your hand up your hand up
• easily blow the kiss towards the person to whom he is intended

If you are standing by the window

• send a classic air kiss with two hands
• bring your arms to the glass
• combine the index fingers at one point
• draw a heart contour on the glass

If you and your partner are close enough

• touch your fingers to your lips
• bring your hand to your partner's face and touch his lips

The values \u200b\u200bof the kiss. Politability or sympathy?

I am a supporter of the custom of kissing a woman's hand. With something you have to start !!!!
S. GITI

In the intimate game of two, a kiss speaks of boundless devotion, admiration, tenderness.

Only a real man kisses his beloved's hands before touching her lips.

Kiss technique in a suction, video

Such a kiss is known as “French” and for it there is a scientific term - “catulotism”. The most intimate of existing kisses. A similar kiss technique was known for a long time and was described in the Kamasutra.

Video: How to kiss French correctly

Technique Kiss without a tongue, video

A kiss with lips alone is very soft and delicate. Partners touch each other's lips very easily. You can occasionally touch the partner’s lips and tongue, studying the lips, but no more.

Video: How to Kiss Without Tongue | Kissing Tips

Technique of an unforgettable passionate kiss

Believe in yourself and experience strong feelings for your partner, and the rest will tell you passion. You can and should

• kiss not only lips, but also neck, ears, eyelids
• gently bite the lower lip and earlobes
• slightly massage the nape of the partner
• whisper tender words
• stroke the back along the spine
• clutch a partner

With any kiss, salivation intensity should be controlled!

Important: don't forget to breathe! The loss of consciousness of one of the partners due to a lack of oxygen will make the kiss really unforgettable, but not too pleasant

Video from Starbook to the Yu will demonstrate “famous Kino Kisses”: in the rain, in the roof, in dance, etc. Thirty beautiful kisses - you need to see!

Video: Famous Cinema kisses

An unexpected "electric" kiss. Technique of Kiss "Electric Discharge"

If the weather outside the window is cool and dry, and the air is saturated with electric discharges, you can experiment with an “electric” kiss.

Important. A prerequisite for a kiss of muffled light in the room, and even better - complete darkness.

• So, immediately before the kiss, the excess of the negative electric charge should be added. The easiest way to do this is to shook your feet on a natural woolen carpet
• Gently and slowly go to the partner awaiting you
• Ask your partner not to move
• Close your face to him. When the distance between you reaches 1 cm, cracking will be heard and the electric discharge will slip between
• Now you can kiss

How do they kiss in different countries of the world?

People kiss on all six continents, but do it completely differently.

Japanese kiss. Technique and features

Modest and restrained, like the Japanese themselves. At the same time, a Japanese kiss is able to light a passion among partners and bring the effect of “inexperience” into their relationship.

Technique:

• The anticipation of the kiss should confuse both partners
• Distance between partners - 0.5 m
• Both lean slightly forward
• One of the partners easily touches the lips of the lower lip of the other
• There should not be an answer to the touch of the lips
• After a few seconds, partners break the touch and retreat back to 1 step

Important. With a Japanese kiss, conversations, laughter, caresses with your hands are not appropriate.

Eskimo kiss. Eskimo kiss technique

Perhaps the oldest kiss in the world. Even older than French!

Technique:

• The beginning of the kiss is a hug
• This is followed by a rapprochement of persons to a slight contact of the noses
• All actions should be synchronous
• The tips of the noses easily glide on each other, going down to the cheeks. After touching the nose to the partner's cheek, kissing inhale the aroma of each other's skin

Romantic French kiss: How to kiss French?

Such a piquant and many -faced French kiss in France is called "English."

The French themselves prefer a mild and gentle struggle of languages, and not a passionate onslaught with deep immersion.

Greek kiss

Refers to the technique of oral caresses

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If you are afraid to kiss, then you have not yet met the only and the only one. And when you meet, you will no longer be up to you, because emotions will overwhelm you stronger than the fear of kisses.

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