Have you felt terrible depression and lack of desire for everything? But after this, even indifference to oneself may arise.
Content
Being in a state of indifference, a person ceases to feel feelings for the world around him and himself. Such a life is devoid of common sense and is filled with gray everyday life.
In a person, physical and psychological activity decreases. Any person is subject to the state of apathy, regardless of character or education.
What does it mean to be indifferent to yourself?
Of no small importance in the formation of an indifferent state is a way of life. The reason for indifferent behavior may be banal boredom. Sometimes the desire to inactive is short -term in nature, in this case, a person just needs a short rest. However, if indifference develops into severe mental state or addictive depression, then it is necessary to analyze your behavior and eliminate the causes of such manifestations.
There are a lot of possible causes of indifference, we will consider some of them:
- Stress experienced
- Chronic diseases.
- Physical fatigue.
- Disappointment in professional activities.
- Lack of goal in life.
- Dissatisfaction with social and social life.
- Alcohol abuse and other bad habits.
- An advanced age.
- Emotional exhaustion.
- Energy imbalance.
An indifferent state is manifested as a protective reaction of the body. A person moves away from the world. Not wanting to feel despair or loneliness, he ceases to show emotions.
- At malaise body indifference is a symptom of leaking disease.
- Taking some drugs It is also capable of causing a similar effect.
- Lack of material wealth It gives a person uncertainty in tomorrow, thus causing indifference to the events.
- When material values \u200b\u200bare placed above human, a person ceases to experience moral satisfaction from such a life.
- Lack of determination deprives us of interest in the events. We stop seeking and wanting, we live a boring monotonous life. In this case, it is necessary armed with the goal. It is she who motivates a person and makes attempts to action.
- Experiencing strong feelings, a person is exhausted and becomes incapable of the manifestation of any emotions. In this case, temporary silence and calm will positively affect the condition of the body.
- Any life situation can lead to apathy.
- Too active emotional bursts lead the body to a state of fatigue. Emotions go off the way and the limit comes, a person becomes indifferent for a while.
- A person who has lost the meaning of life does not worry about anything. The lack of a desire for something in a passive state of motor activity. A person is in no hurry, his energy supply is at a minimum.
- To form desires, it is necessary to show emotions to surrounding events. Indifference leads to a passive state, indifference.
Depression is the easiest form of indifference. Since in a depressive state a person experiences, at least, negative emotions. In this state, the personality suffers due to the unattainability of his desires.
Important: lack of mood is the norm for several days. If a bad mood lasts more than a week, it is reinforced by an oppressed state, depression, then you should pay attention to it.
- In order not to plunge even deeper, stay less alone with yourself and your own thoughts.
Always try to realize your capabilities to the maximum. This will give you new strength and energy. - Showing the participation in the life of others, you will feel an indifferent attitude towards you. This will prompt you to show your kindness and help.
- Do not neglect the attention to you. Understanding and support of loved ones will wake your human qualities.
Indifference to oneself: examples from works of world literature
In literary works, in addition to the main plot, the reader meets various types of people. The authors through their characters show us a person’s attitude to life, to his environment, to the world of nature and beauty.
In various episodes, the relationship of a particular character and society is considered.
Many of us heard the expression of the Russian commander "how painful indifference to ourselves." People who are indifferent to their own lives are content with their miserable existence. Going about their weaknesses, they degrade from a full -fledged person to a broken person.
Consider several famous works with specific examples of literary heroes showing indifference to oneself and the world around him:
- In the novel "Children of Arbat" A.N. Rybakov reveals the topic of indifference on the example of the broken fate of the protagonist. Alexander Pankratov acts as a fighter for justice. Remaining to the end honestly before himself, he cannot do actions in a section of his own conscience. Being in the whirlpool of historical events, the pancramas cannot be under the influence of what is happening around arbitrariness. Fighting with lawlessness, he is not able to hide his feelings and constantly defends his personal position. Being under the pressure of difficult life situations, Alexander does not change human values. Constant disappointment in Soviet power selects the meaning of life from Pankratov. His attempt to arrange his personal life ends in tragedies. These events break Pankratov and bring into an indifferent pessimistic state.
- The harmful effects of indifference to others and their own life are shown on the example of the central character in the work of M. Yu. Lermontov "Hero of our time". Pechorin is in the eternal search for the meaning of his life. The events taking place around him do not bring him joy and pleasure. His environment is not of interest to him. Pechorin accepts multiple attempts to diversify his life, lends itself to adventures and adventures. However, nothing captivates him for a long time. All around, sooner or later it becomes indifferent to Pechorin. He sets himself selfish goals. Obsessed with the desire to overcome boredom, crosses through the fate of other people. When the desired result is achieved, his interest immediately fades away. Indifference to others leads Pechorin in his own indifference. Emptiness day after day fills Pechorin and makes him an unhappy person.
- The indifferent attitude to life in his poem is revealed by A. S. Pushkin. On the example of the protagonist Evgenia Onegin, the author shows how numerous events experienced led a person to indifference and disappointment. All he wants from life is peace. He is completely satisfied with a monotonous and boring life. The indifference shown adversely affects his personality. The feeling of one’s own hopelessness, the inability to influence what is happening, leads the hero into an oppressed state. Onegin does not show interest in the events and the people surrounding him. Having rejected the manifestation of Tatyana's feelings, her care and participation, Eugene doomes herself to loneliness. On the example of Onegin, Pushkin shows the reader how unrealized human capabilities lead the younger generation to an apathetic state. Indifference to oneself often arises under the influence of external factors.
- A person indifferent to himself is described by A.P. Chekhov in the work "Prophetic". He talks about the governess of Julia Vasilievna. She is not able to defend her own opinion. The governess dutifully suffers all resentment and humiliation. Getting a salary in a few months, it remains with a broken trough. Taking advantage of her weakness, the owner maximizes the material benefit in his direction. Fulfilling someone else's will, Julia Vasilievna crosses out her own desires. Thus, she shows indifference to her life
In the work " Fathers and Sons"Written by I. S. Turgenev, on the example of the nihilist Yevgeny Bazarov, an indifferent attitude to art and the surrounding nature is shown. For this character, material values \u200b\u200bare in the first place. He does not take any activities related to art seriously. The spiritual world is not of any interest for Bazarov. He is not able to understand the artistic meaning of paintings.
- Poems and music do not cause him any emotions. Bazarov sees a cold calculation in everything. When making decisions, he does not listen to his feelings.
- Human experiences are alien to him. Being a doctor, Bazarov considers the human body from the point of view of the anatomical structure and does not attach importance to the existence of the soul. It refers to everything incomprehensible through his own denial, thus showing a protective reaction.
- The contemplation of the surrounding nature does not carry Bazarov in spiritual calm or aesthetic pleasure. He easily destroys the world around him.
- Such an indifferent attitude leads to destructive consequences. It is necessary to respect the efforts and the established values \u200b\u200bof the previous generation. Live not only the present, but also think about the future.
- Another striking example of indifference to other people's destinies, we observe in the novel by L. N. Tolstoy " War and Peace". Anatoly Kuragin lives for pleasure. He surrounds himself with all kinds of entertainment. He likes to take care of the female sex and his flirting has no boundaries.
- For Kuragin, his lust is most important, he is indifferent to the feelings of others. Seducting Natasha Rostov, he does not think about her future fate. Playing with her feelings, he gives the girl hope. Natasha commits wrong actions. With his frivolous attitude, Anatoly blacishes the reputation of the girl.
- Indifference manifests itself in every person to a greater or lesser extent. An indifferent attitude towards each other is increasingly found in our lives. Everyone must be responsible for their actions and be prepared for negative consequences.
The danger of an indifferent attitude to others
The problem that we often meet in modern society is indifference. When resolving various kinds of problems, we can only hope for ourselves. People are indifferent to someone else's life.
Good and disinterested deeds no longer have the same value as before. Indifference to others begins with the same attitude to himself. An indifferent person has a blackened soul. Dialogue with such an interlocutor loses all meaning. Talking with an indifferent personality you will not get understanding, empathy or support.
Moreover, you can be accused of all your troubles or interrupt communication due to loss of interest in conversation. Society is afraid to take on the obligations of another person and this is the norm of modern life. Being in a passive state, a person is not able to rejoice for other people's achievements. He closes and degrades in his world.
Removal from bright and saturated events, leads a person to a limited existence. An indifferent person does not need the manifestation of self -love and does not experience such feelings. But it is love that is able to melt the callous heart. Without experiencing such emotions, a person will not be able to live a full -fledged life.
- Young people are not inferior to public transport, no one is trying to ease the burden with heavy bags, because we have become indifferent to others.
- People hide their true feelings, trying to seem better than they really are.
- Disappointment in society leads to indifference to himself. Indifference can be affected by the upbringing of parents or your environment.
- The root of indifference can be notes of selfishness manifested by a person. Excessive self -confidence or high self -esteem provoke an indifferent attitude towards others.
In our progressive time, indifference develops due to the mass irresponsibility of people. The permissiveness of the young generation makes them cruel and aggressive. People replace live communication with various technical sources of information.
American writer H. Keller, devoid of vision and hearing as a result of a disease, wrote about indifference in her statements: "Science invented a cure for most of our diseases, but did not find indifference from them - indifference."