How to determine that a person is an energy vampire: types, signs, methods of protection. How to restore energy and protect against the energy vampire in the family, at work, at a distance? Methods of protection against energy vampires: stones, amulet, prayer, runes

Energy vampires are those who take energy from us without our knowledge, makes us weaker and lives at the expense of others. How not to become an energy donor?

Our energy is an internal source of power: all that allows us to be cheerful, mobile, to feel emotional upsurge and physical activity. When a person is in a balanced state, the processes of spending and replenishing internal energy occur evenly.

If the balance is disturbed, energy is consumed faster than restored, and a person gradually begins to feel internal discomfort, fatigue, and the predominance of negative emotions. And we do not always spend our energy of goodwill.

What is energy vampirism?

When we communicate with other people, in addition to the exchange of words and emotions, we exchange energy with each other.

If the exchange is uniform, then communication does not cause discomfort, there is a feeling of mutual sympathy and affection. If the exchange is uneven, one of the interlocutors replenishes the deficiency of their energy at the expense of the other.

Such a process can be conscious, for example, when a member of your family or a close friend is sick, you deliberately support it, giving a piece of your energy.

But if you were forced to give energy not of your own free will, we can talk about energy vampirism - a kind of theft of your internal energy.

Energy vampires and energy donors: signs and causes of energy vampirism

Energy vampires are people who are not able to restore and maintain internal energy at a sufficient level on their own. They consume energy beyond measure (unresolved problems, negative emotions, unloved work), and do not have the opportunity to replenish it.

Often the energy vampires are deeply notorious, emotionally and spiritually deprived people who simply do not have sources of positive emotions.

Energy donors are, accordingly, people who give their energy to vampires. The higher the donor is developed emotionally and mentally, the less he will notice the fact of vampirism.

However, if an ordinary person with an average supply of energy acts as a donor, the consequences of energy pumping can be very noticeable for him and even dangerous. Especially if communication with the energy vampire occurs constantly, and the energy deficit every time everything is tangible.

Types of energy vampires

Energy vampires can be of two types.

The first type is unconscious. Such vampires do not realize that they actually eat someone else's energy. These people become vampires at the moments of failure, or make the stealing of energy from time to time, but at the same time they do not want evil to the one whose expense live. Sometimes such an unconscious vampire can be an elderly relative or child.

The second type is conscious vampires. Such people pose a much greater danger to the donor, since they deliberately pump up vitality from others and can well hide their true intentions. They do not experience compassion for victims, are not attached to them emotionally, do not burden themselves with ethics issues. Their main task is to get energy at all costs.

Signs of energy vampirism

The main sign of vampirism is your internal state during and after communicating with a person. If you feel discomfort, hostility, desire, a desire to finish the conversation for no reason, and after the conversation you are overcome by fatigue and a sense of inner devastation, we can say that you communicate with the energy vampire.

How does the energy vampire behave?

• A person constantly provokes others to negative emotions - he expresses discontent, scandalite, teach - in a word, he does everything to get you away; At the same time, in the process of the scandal, it comes in noticeably, does not seek to resolve the conflict that has arisen.
• Loves to ask others about life, especially about failures and troubles; readily discusses other people; If it speaks of someone’s success, then only from the perspective of envy and anger.
• Loves to complain about his own problems, drawing you into negative conversations; If you offer a way out of the situation, it will find any excuse to abandon it, since the vampire is not important for a search for a solution, but maintaining negative emotions in communication.
• Poorly tolerates positive emotions. He does not like positive people. Often at the most inopportune moment reminds of troubles and failures. It feels good to the emotional-boolery points of others, touches them at every opportunity and "as if by chance."
• If you had an imprudence to share a problem or disaster with the vampire, it will readily begin to console you, but communication will be unconstructive; Instead of relief, you will feel even more anxiety and sadness.
• If you are faced with a vampire in a public place (in line, in transport or on a walk), try to stop contact and protect yourself from communication with the vampire.
• But it happens that the vampire is our colleague or a close relative. In this case, it is impossible to refuse communication, and becoming a constant donor is dangerous to health.

Energy vampire at work: how to recognize?

• If your boss is a vampire, he will pump out your energy from the standpoint of strength, provoking you to the following emotions: fear, self -doubt, annoyance, unfair resentment, and so on.
• If the vampire is your colleague, he will cause you negative, creating discomfort in your environment: excessive chatter is not on business, quarrels on trifles, complaints to management, gossip.
• If you have a vampire in your subordinates, he will find an excuse to take as many of your time as possible, and thereby cause your irritation and negativity in the team: he will complain about colleagues, provoking you about scandals; He will constantly interfere with him at the workplace; Or he will be too active a social activist, pissing you off sentences and ideas.

Methods of protection against energy vampires

When you cannot exclude communication with the energy vampire for objective reasons, try to make it lose interest in you as a possible donor.

If the tactics chosen by the vampire stops working when communicating with you, most likely he will leave you alone.

• The best strategy is to apply his weapon to the vampire.
  If you are provoked to quarrels and a splash of negative emotions, try to get a vampire out of yourself with a non -standard reaction: bring everything to a joke, do not look into his eyes, abstract from his threats and accusations.
• If the vampire is your boss, and the joke will be inappropriate, imagine mentally the mirror wall between you and the vampire so that all the negative sent to you will return to him through a mirror reflection, without causing you harm. It is also good to cross your legs and arms, so you will significantly reduce the outflow of your energy.
• If the vampire takes your time with complaints and nagging, tell him in response a sad story from the life of your abstract acquaintances. It is important that your story is long enough and the vampire himself lost interest in talking with you. Or tell the vampire that you are very busy and cannot listen to him.
• If your energy is pumped out through a discussion of your problems and personal life, stop sharing private information, answer questions with blurry phrases.

In general, your task is not to allow the vampire to bring you to those emotions through which your energy usually occurs. If you do not play by his rules, he will cease to receive your energy and communication with you will become uninteresting.

Energy vampirism at a distance

It is rare that the vampire sucks your energy even at a distance. For example, you do not physically contact a person, but you feel a kind of connection with him, you are not left by oppressive feeling and negative memories.

Perhaps something reminds you of this person-some kind of trifle, a gift from him, or vice versa you left the vampire belonging to you.

In this case, you need to try to get rid of gifts and return the objects belonging to you or mentally say goodbye to them, and thus stop being their owner.

It is also possible to theft of your energy through non -verbal communication: letters, messages in social networks and on forums. You can provoke you to a splash of energy not only with personal contact, but also in the virtual space.

Do not enter into correspondence with trolls, bring people annoying you in the “black list” of contacts, this will prevent further donation.

Energy vampire in the family: how to help an energy vampire?

The most frequent vampires in the family are children and elderly relatives - that is, the one with whom we cannot divorce, interrupt communication or settle in different corners. Both of them often experience energy hunger: children have not yet learned to replenish their resources on their own; Older people have an energy weakened by age, and are also not always able to make up for a lack without outside help.

Also, a vampire can be a seriously ill person or one who is in a state of stress. In this case, you can help them make up for energy without prejudice to themselves, sharing love and showing care, since love is an energy -powerful emotion. As a rule, several manifestations per day are enough for your loved ones to make up the deficit.

If the home vampire requires too much your energy, try to replace yourself with another donor. For example, put a large flower or aquarium with fish in a relative’s room, often take it to nature, organize him communication on interests.

How to recognize the energy vampire by date of birth?

The level of energy reserves is relative and individual for each of us. It depends on many factors, including the date of birth. If, according to numerology, you have reduced the energy level, you may be an unconscious vampire.

Test for the definition of energy vampirism.

You will need: pen, paper, calculator.

Write down your birth date in DD-MM-GGG format, for example: 14-09-1972.
We summarize all the numbers of the record, until we get the number less than 10: 1+4+0+9+1+9+7+2 \u003d 33 \u003d 3+3 \u003d 6.
If the final number is less than 5, a person has low energy, he constantly needs to be fuel.
If the final number in the interval is from 5 to 7, the energy of a person is normal, it does not need additional sources, but he needs to avoid energy donation.
If the final number is more than 7, a person has excess energy and can share it without prejudice to himself.

How to restore energy after an energy vampire? How to get rid of energy vampirism?

If you are an energy vampire or become a victim, it is extremely important for you to make up for internal energy through other sources.

• Nature fills with energy very well: go barefoot on the grass, lean against the tree trunk, substitute your face to the sun's rays and feel how the strength of nature fills your every cage.
• Talk to animals or home plants that you care for
• Turn on your favorite music, headphones will allow you to mentally is fenced off from a source of irritation or obsessive thoughts.
• If possible, take a shower. Water rinses negative energy very well.
• Delive yourself any joyful emotions that are now available. The main thing is to get a powerful positive charge and stop the flow of negative experiences.

Amulets and amulets, stones protecting from energy vampirism

To protect against the negative effects of vampires, a stone or a talisman will help you, suitable for you from the zodiac sign. You can also be worn in the pocket of the “eye of the Fatima” (popular Turkish amulet-souvenir), or pin it on the wrong side of the clothes with a pin. You can wear your zodiac sign in the form of a pendant on your chest. You can make a charm with your own hands, for example, weave a bracelet, during the weaving of which to mentally charge it with your energy and endow with protective properties.

In general, any thing that is charged with your energy (that is, who has been in long contact) can act as a talisman.
From time to time, it is necessary to wash the amulet under running water, clean it with salt or soap to wash off the negativity accumulated on it.

Believers who do not practice esotericism and pagan symbols can be read prayer as protection. To eliminate energy vampirism, universal prayer is suitable " Our Father"Or your prayer guardian angel.

In order to avoid the situation of energy vampirism or energy donation, it is important to remember the golden rule of communication: the exchange of energies during communication should be mutual, voluntary and comfortable.

If you are a donor, learn to tightly protect your boundaries from external encroachments. If you are a vampire, find to communicate people who have excessive energy, giving it to themselves.

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